We were created to be a team with our husband. God designed it no other way. From the very beginning, God said, "It is not good for man to be alone, I will make a helper suitable for him." God didn't make Adam, Jenny. God didn't make Adam, Sarah. But He made him a helper who was suitable for Him which was Eve. From the very beginning, God knew the perfect helper suitable to your husband, the pastor, was you. You both were created to be a team.
As a pastor and pastor's wife of the church, God has united you both as one. I do not believe He calls one without the other. You both need each other to accomplish all that He has for you in full time ministry. Day to day tasks may look different for each of you. And God may have also designed and wired you both with different personalities, and gifts. However, God chose you both for each other. He knew you would need each other to Glorify Him best.
We need to remember the love and promises we made to one another. Our identities in marriage can easily get wrapped up in being ministry partners, and lose sight of who we are as one. The end goal is not ministry partners, but a husband and wife united as one with Christ, glorifying God in each season doing the tasks in which He has laid out for us. Do not forget who your husband is. He is the man God chose for you, who isn't perfect, who makes mistakes, who is called to pastor a church.
We have to start covering our marriages in prayer. You better believe those who are at the front of the battle, the enemy wants to take out any chance he can. Your prayer for your spouse is the most effective prayer anyone could ever pray for you spouse, because you are his other half. You are one together. Pray, pray, pray!!! Be the team God designed you to be, and represent Christ every second of every day in your marriage. Constantly lay down your life for each other.
A pastor and his wife united together with Christ, will become unstoppable. Fight for each other. The enemy is out to steal, kill, and destroy YOU, YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR MARRIAGE, and THE CHURCH.
xo a girl who sleeps with the pastor