When you live with the pastor, you see and know the pastor. You know his strengths, and weaknesses. And because you know him, the devil will use that to hinder you. He can twist thoughts in your mind, so your husband's sermons no longer speak to you. He can twist thoughts, so you hold your husband on a pedestal, and leave no room for him to make mistakes.
Pastors' wives don't forget who your husband is. He will make mistakes, he will probably mess up, he will struggle with sin, he will sin, and he will probably do things you don't like. But that doesn't make him less of a pastor. God calls the broken, and uses the most messed up people to glorify him. Remember, He called you and me to be a pastor's wife, and we are far from perfect women.
Do not allow the devil to plant little seeds of expectations and lies about your husband in your mind and heart. God says, we need to guard our hearts. This doesn't mean on occasion. We need to constantly every waking moment of every day be guarding our hearts. The devil knows who you are, and he knows who your husband is. If he can twist your thoughts of your husband, it will not only hinder you, but what is planted in your heart will come out of your mouth and then hinder your husband.
If out of the mouth the heart speaks, your husband first of all will be crushed. You are suppose to be his cheer leader. And second, he will start to believe the lies you are speaking, and it will affect his heart too. Guard your heart, and guard your husband's heart from the enemies lies as well. We are called to be our husband's helper, and part of that means to help guard his heart.
Remember who your husband is.
xo a girl who sleeps with the pastor.