You must love the Lord your God.
Luke 10:27 “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind."
Stay true to who God created you to be. God created all of us with different personalities, gifts, looks, and abilities for one purpose, to glorify him. We are all playing different instruments to one song. Don't try to play with a different instrument when God gave you the gift of being a violin. Be true to you.
1 Corinthians 12:4-12 There are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit is the source of them all. There are different kinds of service, but we serve the same Lord. God works in different ways, but it is the same God who does the work in all of us.
A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other. To one person the Spirit gives the ability to give wise advice; to another the same Spirit gives a message of special knowledge. The same Spirit gives great faith to another, and to someone else the one Spirit gives the gift of healing. He gives one person the power to perform miracles, and another the ability to prophesy. He gives someone else the ability to discern whether a message is from the Spirit of God or from another spirit. Still another person is given the ability to speak in unknown languages, while another is given the ability to interpret what is being said. It is the one and only Spirit who distributes all these gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should have.
Love and pray for your husband (pastor)
Colossians 3:14 And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
Genesis 2:18 Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him."
Keep your life in order.
Jesus the center.
Pray for the church.